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Rachel Bilsonis getting candid about her sexual experiences.

Bilson, 41, also revealed she was in a similar boat as her comedic pal.

“I was the same as you,” the actress said. “It didn’t happen for me until I was about 38. Isn’t that crazy?”

And while Bilson was able to accomplish this on her own, she admitted: “But not with, like, d— inside.”

TheHart of Dixiealum previously said shegrew up in a “sex-positive and free and candid” household. Because of that, she’s able to be very forthcoming when discussing her sex life on her podcast.

“I’m 40 years old. Like, the things that my friends and I talk about shouldn’t be taboo, you know?” she said for Yahoo! Life’sThe Unwindseries last July.“It should feel like a safe space to be open, because so many people go through similar things. And what’s better than to have a support system, or feel like you’re being heard and having a space to do so?”

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On an earlier episode of her podcast, Bilson revealedthe NSFW thingshe missed about ex-boyfriendBill Hader. “His big d—,” she said.

“I could not leave my house, you know what I mean? I had nothing else to do but sit in it, and deal with it and feel it,” she previously explained on her podcast. “It was probably the hardest thing I’ve ever done⁠, harder than childbirth.”

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Like Bilson, Cummings has also been candid about discussing sex. She previously promoted the"just say vagina" campaignandwas an ambassadorfor the birth control Annovera.

source: people.com