Ashlee Simpson and Joe Simpson in Los Angeles in July 2017.Photo:Matt Winkelmeyer/Getty

Ashlee Simpson and Joe Simpson attend Art with a Cause on July 27, 2017 in Los Angeles, California.

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Ashlee Simpsonis reflecting on her decision to turn down her father’s request that she wear a purity ring as a preteen.

The “Pieces of Me” singer, 39, said on a new episode of the podcastBroad Ideas with Rachel Bilson & Olivia Allenthat she was an “independent soul” as a child, who rejecteddad Joe’s push for her to remain a virgin until marriage.

“I would come off way more rebellious than I even was, because I was like, ‘Oh no, I’m not doing that,’” she said of her defiant streak. “I would see how my dad would be like, ‘Oh, you can’t talk to this guy. Here’s your ring to save yourself.’ He tried to give me one at 12 and I was like, ‘Oh, no thank you. I won’t be telling you when I have sex.’”

Simpson continued: “And meanwhile, I never did [have sex] until I was 17, but I always wanted it to be open that you don’t know what I’m doing.”

Ashlee Simpson in Los Angeles on Feb. 4, 2024.John Salangsang/Billboard via Getty Images

Ashlee Simpson at the 5th Jam for Janie GRAMMY Awards Viewing Party

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Simpson’s sister Jessica famously wore one, and kept her pledge to remain abstinent before marriage,telling PEOPLE in 2000that virginity was “something I stand strong in.”

On the podcast, the star opened up about the ways in which she and Jessica, 43, differed as children, and how their momTina, 64, made a point of raising them to their own unique strengths.

“My mom really would pay attention and see me if I needed something different, and she would make that time. And now that we’re all parents we finally get the other side,” Simpson said. “Growing up, I was really an independent soul and I wanted to like, do my own effing thing. They had to let me kind of be free and have that moment, or at least feel free. And sometimes too free.”

Simpson is now a mom of three; she shares sonBronx, 15, with ex-husbandPete Wentz, anddaughter Jagger, 8, and son Ziggy, 3, with husbandEvan Ross, whom she married in 2014.

source: people.com